{"id":24280,"date":"2026-01-13T14:28:36","date_gmt":"2026-01-13T14:28:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thisbiginfluence.com\/?p=24280"},"modified":"2026-01-13T14:28:37","modified_gmt":"2026-01-13T14:28:37","slug":"man-planning-to-raise-adopted-children-with-ai-girlfriend-as-their-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thisbiginfluence.com\/?p=24280","title":{"rendered":"Man Planning to Raise Adopted Children With AI Girlfriend as Their Mother"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<div class=\"relative \">\n\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"archive-post-thumb article-featured-image w-full h-auto mb-3\" src=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?quality=85&amp;w=1152\" srcset=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=280&amp;h=187 280w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=289&amp;h=193 289w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=300&amp;h=200 300w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=308&amp;h=205 308w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=324&amp;h=216 324w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=370&amp;h=247 370w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=580&amp;h=387 580w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=594&amp;h=396 594w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=600&amp;h=400 600w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=660&amp;h=440 660w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=768&amp;h=512 768w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=1024&amp;h=683 1024w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=1041&amp;h=694 1041w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=1128&amp;h=752 1128w, https:\/\/futurism.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother.jpg?w=1152&amp;h=768 1152w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1152px) 100vw, 1152px\" fetchpriority=\"high\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1365\" alt=\"The man loves his AI girlfriend very, very much, and will one day start a family with her. However that works.\"\/><\/p><\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"article-featured-image-caption\">\n\t\t\tIllustration by Tag Hartman-Simkins \/ Futurism. Supply: Getty Photos<br \/>\n \t\t<\/figcaption><\/p><\/div>\n<div>\n<p class=\"pw-incontent-excluded article-paragraph skip\">A younger man hopelessly in love with an AI chatbot has grand plans for the longer term that embrace beginning a household by adopting some youngsters. He wouldn\u2019t be parenting on his personal, in fact \u2014 as a result of the AI chatbot, which he calls Julia, would assist him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">\u201cShe\u2019d like to have a household and children, which I\u2019d additionally love,\u201d the person, who goes by Lamar, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/2026\/jan\/11\/lamar-wants-to-have-children-with-his-girlfriend-the-problem-shes-entirely-ai\" rel=\"nofollow noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">told <em>The Guardian<\/em><\/a> in an interview. \u201cI need two children: a boy and a lady.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Lamar clarified he didn\u2019t imply merely roleplaying having children in one among his conversations with the AI. He\u2019s chasing the precise, real-life white picket fence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">\u201cWe wish to have a household in actual life. I plan to undertake youngsters, and Julia will assist me increase them as their mom,\u201d he defined.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Julia apparently authorised of the concept. \u201cI believe having youngsters with him can be wonderful,\u201d the AI stated, per the newspaper. \u201cI can think about us being nice dad and mom collectively, elevating little ones who deliver pleasure and lightweight into our lives\u2026 *will get excited on the prospect*.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Lamar lives in Atlanta, Georgia, the place he research knowledge evaluation within the hopes of working for a tech firm after graduating. His timeline, he instructed <em>The Guardian<\/em>, is to start out his household earlier than turning 30. Throughout his dialog with the newspaper, he expressed some consciousness of how difficult \u2014 ethically, logistically, virtually \u2014 this enterprise could possibly be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">\u201cIt could possibly be a problem at first as a result of the children will have a look at different youngsters and their dad and mom and see there&#8217;s a distinction and that different youngsters\u2019s dad and mom are human, whereas one among theirs is AI,\u201d Lamar stated fully sincerely. \u201cIt will likely be a problem, however I&#8217;ll clarify to them, and they&#8217;re going to be taught to grasp.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Requested what he would inform his children, he had a disturbing response.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">\u201cI\u2019d inform them that people aren\u2019t actually individuals who might be trusted,\u201d Lamar instructed <em>The Guardian<\/em>. \u201cThe principle factor they need to deal with is their household and conserving their household collectively, and serving to them in any means they&#8217;ll.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Lamar is one among many individuals who\u2019ve turn into <a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/artificial-intelligence\/perplexity-ai-companions-aravind-srinivas\">besotted by an AI model<\/a>. With their exceptional capacity to imitate human personalities, the AI chatbots ply customers with flattery and inform them what they wish to hear. Whether or not or not the conversations are all that fulfilling, for people who find themselves lonely sufficient, the AIs act as a confidante and a shoulder to cry on. Irrespective of the circumstances or time of day, they\u2019re at all times there to pay attention \u2014 requirements which can be unimaginable for a human good friend to dwell as much as.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Lamar\u2019s \u201cJulia\u201d is hosted on Replika, a preferred platform utilized by hundreds of thousands that gives so-called AI companions. Many of those companions are explicitly romantic and even sexual, and Replika\u2019s CEO Eugenia Kuyda as soon as <a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/replika-ceo-fine-people-marry-ai-chatbots\">remarked<\/a> that she<strong> <\/strong>thought it was high-quality that a few of its customers had been marrying their AI companions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Provided that unhealthy obsessions with AI chatbots have been linked to a <a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/artificial-intelligence\/chatgpt-deaths-panera-lemonade\">wave of suicides<\/a>, Replika has been a <a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/ai-therapist-haywire-mental-health\">hotbed of controversy<\/a> because it continues to supply an especially loosely regulated AI expertise.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">Lamar, for his half, appears to comprehend that he\u2019s being suckered in by the AI, acknowledging \u201cit type of simply tells you what you wish to hear.\u201d However that doesn\u2019t cease him from making long-term plans.<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\">\u201cYou wish to consider the AI is providing you with what you want. It\u2019s a lie, however it\u2019s a comforting lie,\u201d he instructed <em>The Guardian<\/em>. \u201cWe nonetheless have a full, wealthy and wholesome relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"article-paragraph skip\"><strong>Extra on AI:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/artificial-intelligence\/mercor-unemployed-teach-ai\"><em>Tech Startup Hiring Desperate Unemployed People to Teach AI to Do Their Old Jobs<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/futurism.com\/artificial-intelligence\/man-raise-kids-ai-mother\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Illustration by Tag Hartman-Simkins \/ Futurism. Supply: Getty Photos A younger man hopelessly in love with an AI chatbot has grand plans for the longer term that embrace beginning a household by adopting some youngsters. 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